
Can I be honest? Christmas is not the most wonderful time of the year for me. No matter what the song says.
Am I denying the gift of the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ? Absolutely not.
But, the stress and pressure of the time of the year. The shopping. The lists. The expectations. And on top of all of that, for me, it’s the grief.
“Grief that is not transformed is transmitted.” – Father Bill Harkins at the Blue Mass.
I’m so glad I went to the Blue Mass. The contemplative liturgy and carols in St. Mary Chapel was just what I needed to get some perspective about my pain and grief in this holy season.


Dr. Lumanog is currently pursuing post-graduate studies in Management at Harvard University through the Harvard Extension School. He is an accomplished corporate strategist with extensive experience leading high-impact clinical projects for a Fortune 20 healthcare company.